Posted in 18+, Life in General


I’m tired… Right now I’d love a gin and tonic…

Today has been another day of constant bombardment. No time to finish one task before the next email arrived.

I started work early, not because I planned to but because a colleague called me. I planned to stop for dinner then more emails and a sales guy arrived, so although I ate I didn’t “stop”.. and it was ten past 4 when I finally sent the daily update email… I’m meant to finish at 4.

So I have done an extra 50 minutes today …. I did an extra 40 minutes yesterday and an hour the day before….

No wonder I’m tired…. Maybe MrH has something delicious planned for tonight to help me decompress….

Fingers crossed 🤞

Posted in 18+, D/s Experiences, Life in General

TMI Tuesday 13/03/18 sexy secrets

1. Do you have a special place you like to have sex regularly?

Anywhere MrH wants. Usually MrH likes to be comfortable so bed.

2. What’s the hardest thing you’ve ever done? The scariest?

Hardest would be coping with loosing my dad.

Scariest, giving birth first time around. I was terrified of the pain.

3. Are you annoying?

Probably! I have a weird sense of humour, I can be needy and my poor self esteem makes me very insecure. Oh and I snore.

4. A person whom you’ve had “the hots” for a very long time tells you they are super attracted to you. You spend a few hours together and the sexual attraction is overwhelming. You are dying to have this person as your lover. At the moment you are highly aroused, and he/she wants to have sex with you in a church, would you do it?

Easy to answer. Wouldn’t bother me. The only person I have the hots for is MrH!

5. While in the middle of the best lovemaking of your life, if your lover asked you to squeal like a dolphin, would you?

Doubtful… I’d more than likely laugh my ass off!!!

Bonus: Are you good in bed?

MrH has always said I’m amazing so let’s go with that 🤣


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Posted in 18+, Life in General

Painful Regrets

So I did something stupid.

I did something different and new. I went shopping. If you read my blog you will remember I went to Liverpool shopping (first mistake) with MrH in heels (biggest mistake).

Yesterday my back hurt.

Today it’s agony.

First time in a while I actually couldn’t make it out the front door. My new boss let me do a few hours work at home… And then I’ve used some holiday time to spend the afternoon in bed resting.

How understanding can a new boss be? He’s just asked me to work longer hours each day.. so I can’t even think about just working 5 hours tomorrow and then coming home to rest again because that would be taking the piss, right? Yeah you’re right that would be taking the piss.

So I guess one way or another I have to get to work tomorrow, pull one out of my ass (so to speak) and get through the day. When really what I want to do is spend another day like today… Resting in bed with my guardian cats.

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Sizzlin’ Saturdays Weekly Writing Prompt

Naughty Nora’s Sizzlin’ Saturday blog prompt has inspired me to write this one…..

What memory do you have, the one you re-visit and find yourself grinning to, of your earliest sensual experience?

This is a difficult one… I had a lot of sexual experiences but I wouldn’t say any of them were particularly “sensual” – awkward and forced comes more to mind. I’d never even experienced an orgasm until 18 months after I divorced my first husband.

I think my first sensual memory that provokes a smile would be when I dressed up in a French maid outfit for MrH. I told him my pc was playing up (it was in my bedroom) and nipped to the loo where I had hidden the outfit.

I quickly changed into it and went to stand at the side of him.

When he turned to look at me he did the most amazing double take, his mouth popped open, and he looked so amazed.

Needles to say he had his cock in me a short time later and lots of fun was had by all…

What is the most common fantasy that plays out in your mind which brings you to orgasm?

Mrh arrives home from work, I’m in the kitchen preparing tea; he comes and stands behind me. He moves my hair to one side and kisses my neck. He pulls me back against his body and I feel his hard cock. He tells me he needs to feel his cock in my pussy, that he’s been thinking about me all day. He roughly removes my clothes and leads me to the sofa. He sits and exposes his hard cock. He tells me to sit over him and ride his cock till he cums. He bites and kisses my breasts and his hands caress and grasp and slap my ass. I ride him and he tells me how beautiful and sexy I am, how good it feels.. he tells me to cum for him as he can’t wait any longer and I do….

Works every time (brb 😉)

What is one act, that unsolicited, you’d like your lover to do to you during sex?

Can I have 2???? Take me anally and full body inspections with comments.

It’s usually something I hint at but I wish MrH would do more of. I love how it makes me feel so submissive and possessed. We even have a lube syringe to make everything easier and a glass dildo that I’m excited to try.

And I’d love to experience a body inspection, where he looks and makes comments… You know … Sweetgirl is very wet… Looks good… Etc.

Posted in 18+, Hotel Play Dates, Images

Challenging myself

I’ve recently been talking about how I struggle to tell MrH my desires while looking at him.

I hide my face, feeling embarrassed at the things that turn me on.

So this morning I challenged myself to tell MrH two things that turn me on, while looking at him and while he looked at me.

He didn’t react with anything negative, he didn’t look disgusted which of course is my fear. Instead he said, “sounds interesting” which I take to mean he likes the ideas..

I also decided to post some very revealing images, not something I would normally do, but yesterday I received so many compliments on how good I looked in my dress, and I felt so amazing in my new bra set (having dropped another band size) that I am going to face the music and do it before I change my mind!!!

[Cover image pose inspired by Missy]

Posted in 18+, Hotel Play Dates, Life in General

Our day in brief…

MrH and I had an interesting day so far…. Got on the train…. Train stopped 3 stops later….. Someone had jumped in front of a train further along 😞

So we shared a taxi the rest of the journey with a lovely American couple from Texas…. We shopped …. We found a lovely bra and panties set… my feet hurt sooo much that I had to go buy a set of pumps (bright white ones that look awful with the dress I was wearing) but I could barely walk so needs must in order to make it to the train station!!!!!! We had to wait 45 mins for the train so I sat in the station with my feet up …..

The train was delayed by 5 mins but once we got in it we had a straight journey back to the car…. Straight to the pub next to the hotel…. Food….. Check in….. And I put the new panties on (I’d been commando all day) MrH played with his toy in her new lingerie…. Now having coffee and cuddles while MrH decides what to do with his toy next…..