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How it began – part 1

I’ve read a lot of literature, but the first time I encountered BDSM it was by accident. Apparently not everything Anne Rice writes is horror! I was in the library looking for a new horror book having just finished one of the vampire books and I picked up a book called ‘Beauty’s Punishment’ needless to say it was an eye opener.  I read and found myself aroused, but at the same time I felt it was wrong to be… at 20 I had very little experience. I had been married briefly to a very inexperienced man who ultimately was unfaithful and the relationship ended.  I had a young son. But I was very niave.

I met my now husband when I was 21, and our relationship has been great. MrH is strong, passionate, caring.  We have had periods where the passion has ebbed but we have remained strong together through our deep friendship and trust.

Even so it took me 17 years to ask him if he would be willing to try BDSM and as I am now off to work I’ll tell you about that next time.



I am 43 years old and have been married to MrH for 19 years; we’ve been together for 24. We have 2 boys, young men now really at 19 and 25. I have battled depression and anxiety on and off for the last 10 years and at the moment it’s under control. A few months ago I asked MrH if he would consider adding D/s to our relationship as I wanted explore submission. I’ve always liked it when MrH was more dominant and I wanted him to do this more. Since then we have transitioned into a full time D/s relationship and things have never been better with our relationship.

5 thoughts on “How it began – part 1

    1. I wasn’t aware she had 😂 but I think her fame came from the supernatural genre, and I wonder if she had reservations when she first published them, after all she published them under a pseudonym.


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